I am planning on getting married ..

jimliker · Post by **jimliker** » Sun Dec 16, 2007 3:56 pm

dont let urself fall into this hell Lammy , i suggest u to leave him

sprousefan23 · Post by **sprousefan23** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 4:22 am

Yeah, don't let yourself be pushed around for what you think is happiness. If you're not happy in a relationship, ditch him.

jimlover · Post by **jimlover** » Tue Dec 18, 2007 1:54 pm

Oh Lammy, I am sorry to hear, hon. But please think thousand times before u getting married.

I hope God helps u to make right desicion.

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Sun Dec 23, 2007 3:56 pm

The way I see it is if I sit around and wait for Jim to fall on my lap - I'll be an old lady ... LOL !!

I've thought it over and over , trust me . But he's my match in this real life - Jim is just a dream a thought .. a good one at that . Life has to go on -

Jimenem · Post by **Jimenem** » Wed Dec 26, 2007 9:52 pm

OH my god Lammy, this is WONDERFUL news . . . sorry it's a bit delayed by congratulations.

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Sun Dec 30, 2007 5:09 pm

No it's really not great news at all . Though he is the father of my youngest ones he sucks at keeping me happy . All is the children . The children have more attention from him than i . My attention from him comes at night and he can't even do that right .

If it doesn't work I'll move to a place smaller than where I used to live .

mr.sparkles · Post by **mr.sparkles** » Mon Dec 31, 2007 12:29 am

for the kids' sake you should leave the guy. there is nothing worse for a kid to experience than a broken family where the "father" or "father figure" could care less. and you should be happy too. in fact thats the main thing. there are plenty of other guys out there who will take your kids as their own and also give you the love and respect you deserve. just my two cents tho. its up to you what you do in the end. whatever happens tho i wish you good luck.

jimliker · Post by **jimliker** » Mon Dec 31, 2007 4:16 pm

I agree with Mr.Sparkles

fluffy · Post by **fluffy** » Mon Dec 31, 2007 5:38 pm

Lammy i think you are a truely awesome example of a survivor.....You've been through more than most of us will in our entire lives. Do you really need a man who will take you for granted and make you feel unloved?....Or will you be happier doing it on your own terms??......Only you can decide but you know where we are if you need to vent.......

fluffy

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Sun Jan 06, 2008 5:48 pm

And as I wrote on your dying post my life ha gotten worse . If only God would end my pain and hurt .

And here I will vent until I die .

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Sat Jan 19, 2008 4:46 pm

Okay so , I am glad to inform all that I have left my childrens father and am happy for that decision and will not go back . He didn't want me to go back to college ... being that he didn't want me to become anyone -so I had enough of his negativity ...

fluffy · Post by **fluffy** » Sat Jan 19, 2008 6:12 pm

we're behind you whatever your decision...........

fluffy

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Mon Jan 21, 2008 7:08 pm

Nothing in this life will ever surprise me . I know what it's like not to have anything (materialistic) even when I did have stuff . I now don't own a thing - just my car and my writtings . When I left I said not a word . I took my children some clothes and my writtings . Now all I own is just that . LOL It's not funny but I have lived life really hard .

fluffy · Post by **fluffy** » Mon Jan 21, 2008 8:40 pm

all the violence in the past must have been really tough to live with too.....and the druggie boyfriends.....violence is terrible.....

fluffy

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Wed Jan 23, 2008 11:58 pm

My life has always been a stressful one . I know a pshycologist would put me on medication .

But that is okay - I haven't lost my soul .